This is just a thought I wanted to share to see what other
think. I tend to see things differently. I grew in a culture where words were
many and there is a lot of water under the bridge. I have really this last year
been brought to a place where I am weighting my words. Truly with a sincere
heart counting the cost of all I say.
“Sticks and Stones my break my bones but
words will never hurt me.” Has been replaced with and I will give account for
every careless word I say. The monologue in my head tends to be a running
chorus of scriptures on how I should speak.
Ecclesiastes 5:22 Do not be quick with your mouth,do not be hasty in your heartto utter anything before God.God is in heavenand you are on earth,so let your words be few.
Matthew 5:3737 All you need to say is simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.
What are some simple tips for following this scripture?
- I have taken a no excuses path to this scripture making me a lot more careful with what I say yes or no too.
- Unless you are on a game show, never say yes or no without taking the time to think about your decision.
- Make sure you are at peace with your decision. If you are worried or uncertain take the time to find that peace.
- Get advise or talk through your decision with a trusted friend
- Never feel bad for saying "I'll get back to you or can I let you know later?"
- We need to accept that we cannot take back our word
I am always thankful for those moments when I fail to get
all the necessary information and God intercedes for me. Yesterday, my son
asked if he could purchase a second hamster so our little Chewy could have a
friend. Without any research or additional information I said yes.
Realizing that I was struggling with my decision but had already said YES. I told him that although I had some concerns the decision was his to make. Not taking back
my word created the opportunity to talk with my son about his decision. Was he putting his needs ahead of Chewy?
He wants a second hamster, but I did not
think he had considered what Chewy wanted. Chewy gets played with a lot and is very
happy. She might not want to share the attention or even her home with another Hamster. She has been living alone for the last three months.
Maybe I am a little sensitive because I do feel like we are invading my Mother and Sister's space. Being or feeling displaced can be very stressful, so why stress out our little Chewy.
God worked this situation out
without me having to take back my word. I trusted him and he provided a way
out. I had my son call the pet store to ask some more questions. The manager told him that the hamster he
wanted was a different breed from our beloved Chewy and would not be a good
companion for her. God blessed us with the perfect pet hamster in Chewy and continues to safe guard her.
When we keep our word and seek God first, He always honors
our efforts. Perfection, not necessary, just sincere hearts.
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